It’s ironic how there are some who admonish dads for their lack of parental involvement, and some who spend their time furthering that notion through advertising.
Take, for instance, this parent magazine ad for Aveeno Baby, produced by a company who believes that it’s only mom’s duty to handle a child’s skin protection. That company may argue that “market research indicates…” or “readers prefer…” or “our focus groups suggest…” – but the fact is that it’s furthering a perception which is unfair, sexist and wrong.
Dads shop. Dads parent. Dads care. And, well, dads apply sunscreen.
If you aren’t bothered by this chauvinistic ad, you should be for more reasons than one. Not only does it disregard and intentionally exclude dads, it also uses the image of a boy to sell its product, the very product that will one day ignore this same boy should he become a father someday. Spouses, too, should be bothered by this gender annexation: that person they’re ignoring is your partner, your equal, your helpmate in this adventure called parenting.
Interestingly, last week we received a note from @KnowYourObama, who said, “Marketers don’t market to dads as parents because, mostly, they’re not.”
There’s no telling why this person believe this, but we wanted to chat a little more, and the following brief conversation ensued:
@dad_marketing: “I think you might have offended Obama, plus a lot of other dedicated dads.”
@KnowYourObama: “Obama’s a good dad, yes. But good dads – dads – are hard to find. Yay for the good ones.”
Here at DM Headquarters, we have no hard data to prove that there are more dedicated dads than uninvolved dads, but there should at least be some protection against libel, or perhaps some rules which guide what marketers can or can’t say.
Marketing departments have been saying or doing whatever they wanted for years, sometimes with little adaptation for societal changes – all in the pursuit of the almighty dollar. It takes some real honorable companies to take a stand and do what is right and not just offer lip service (check out Jif-maker Smucker’s, and its “promise” page).
And who – you might ask – makes Aveeno Baby lotion? None other than Johnson & Johnson, who has a history of waffling on gender equality.
To quote a word from Aveeno’s own ad, parents (dads included) have “trusted” Aveeno Baby and Johnson & Johnson for years. When will that trust be returned?